Explore Our Intimate Group Experiences
Trauma-informed, child-focused, professionally facilitated small-group support for Australian mothers navigating complex post-separation realities.
These are not generic coaching groups. Each experience is intentionally small, professionally facilitated and deeply held. We work with women who carry complex emotional, psychological and practical loads. Group size is capped for safety, trust and genuine support - so you can feel genuinely grounded, seen and guided.
Separation Curious
A 4-week small group experience for Australian women contemplating separation, facilitated by Principal Coach Danielle Black.
If you are here, there is a reason.
You are not “dramatic.”
You are not “overreacting.”
And you are not “failing.”
You are a thoughtful person who is trying to understand whether separation is the right next step for you (and possibly also your children).
This 4-week small-group experience is for Australian women who do not want to make impulsive decisions, but who recognise that something in their marriage/relationship is deeply not working - and they want clarity, steadiness, strategy, and professional support as they think things through.
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You are quietly considering separation but haven’t decided
You feel fairly certain that you want to separate, but are scared about the practical reality
You feel confused, torn, guilty or overwhelmed
Part of you is hoping things might improve, while another part knows something has to change
You want child-centred clarity rather than panic-driven decisions
You want to understand emotional, practical, safety and legal realities before doing anything
You value grounded, evidence-informed, trauma-aware guidance
You want honest conversation without anyone pushing you to “just leave” or telling you to “just stay”
You are able to commit to attending the live sessions
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You and/or your children are currently in physical danger (you need specialist crisis support)
You have already begun the separation process (you need individual post-separation strategy and should start with a 1:1 coaching consultation)
You are currently in active court proceedings
You want validation to leave immediately rather than thoughtful exploration
You are wanting legal advice (this isn’t legal advice, though we discuss family law frameworks, realities and safety)
You want a therapy group - this is structured, practical, supportive solution-focused coaching
You are unable to attend the live sessions and are seeking recordings (these sessions are never recorded)
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4 x 90-minute live small group sessions (women-only, highly contained, safe)
Space to slow down your nervous system so you can think clearly
Grounded discussion about children’s needs, attachment, potential post-separation parenting arrangements, safety and realities
Clarity about common psychological, emotional and logistical considerations
Steady facilitation - no drama, no chaos, no pressure
Compassionate truth, not fantasy or false reassurances
A meaningful $250 discount on the Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™
Free access to AI Danielle until December 2026
Clear options for ongoing support if you choose
My commitment is that you will leave these 4 weeks feeling:
clearer
more grounded
emotionally steadier
more informed
less alone
more trusting of your own judgement
Even if you decide not to separate.
Even if you’re not ready yet.
Even if you never work with me again.What you gain here travels with you.
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The Separation Curious group is intentionally small. This is not a large, anonymous “group program” on zoom.
Each group is intentionally small so it remains personal, deeply supported and emotionally safe.
The size is chosen so that every woman can be heard, every story can be honoured, and nobody fades into the background.This space is not therapy and not crisis response
Sessions are never recorded to protect privacy and emotional safety
Confidentiality is a core expectation
Suitability is self-assessed - please read carefully to ensure this program is right for you
If you’re unsure whether you are safe, please reach out to domestic violence or crisis supports first
You deserve to explore this question without fear, shame, pressure or panic. This is where you do that.
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This is a fully online program delivered live via Coviu, a secure telehealth platform designed for safe (encrypted) and private support.
After registering and completing payment, you’ll receive a confirmation email with your personal access link and joining instructions.
If you’ve used Zoom before, Coviu will feel familiar. There’s nothing to download - simply click your link to join at the day and time of the scheduled call. -
12pm on Wednesdays (AEDT), starting Wednesday 25 February.
All dates:
Wed. 25 February
Wed. 4 March
Wed. 11 March
Wed. 18 March
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$525 AUD
for the full 4-week small group experience (4 x 90-minute live small group sessions)
This program is intentionally priced to reflect both the depth of support offered and the seriousness of the decisions you are contemplating. It is a premium, carefully held, trauma-informed experience - without placing unnecessary financial pressure on women who are already carrying so much.
Many women tell me that the steadying, clarity, confidence and relief they gain from me would have changed the trajectory of their separation or court journey had they found me earlier. My intention is that this investment delivers a return in emotional stability, grounded decision-making, and reduced harm for both you and your children — whether you continue with further support or not.
You receive:
6 hours of live, specialist, high-level support over 4 weeks
intimate, capped small-group experience
grounded guidance, emotional regulation and clarity
meaningful Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint discount
Access to AI Danielle until May 2026
options for ongoing support if needed
This is not a casual information session or general webinar.
It is structured, focused professional support, designed to genuinely help you think clearly, feel steadier, and make decisions you can trust.Payment
Full payment of $525 AUD is required to confirm your place.
Numbers are strictly limited to protect the intimacy and safety of the space.
Family Court Curious
A 4-week small group experience for Australian mothers contemplating applying for parenting and/or property orders, facilitated by Principal Coach Danielle Black.
Considering family court is enormous.
It is not a decision you make lightly.
It is not something that most women want to do. And yet - sometimes, it becomes an option you need to genuinely consider in order to protect yourself and your children.
This 4-week experience is for Australian women who are seriously thinking about entering the family law system but haven’t yet filed - and want to understand the reality, not the horror stories, fantasy or fear.
This is where you breathe, think, stabilise, and decide consciously with informed and strategic intention.
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You are thinking “I may need to initiate in family court… but I’m terrified / unsure / overwhelmed”
You want a trauma-informed, reality-grounded understanding of what family court in Australia really involves
You want to think this through calmly rather than reactively
You want to consider your children’s needs first and foremost
You want emotional containment, clarity and direction
You value professionalism and honesty, with a focus on child-safety and wellbeing
You may never have navigated anything like this before and want to feel steadier
You are able to commit to attending the live sessions
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You are currently in active court proceedings
You want legal advice (we discuss Australian legal frameworks and realities, however this is not legal advice)
You are expecting me to tell you whether you “should” or “shouldn’t” go to court - I can provide guidance and clarity so that your feel better able to make an informed choice, but the ultimate decision rests with you
You are hoping for quick fixes or guarantees
You are in immediate danger and require urgent legal or safety intervention
You want unregulated venting - this is a contained, supportive, grounded space that is also firmly solution-focused
You are unable to attend the live sessions and are seeking recordings (these sessions are never recorded)
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4 x 90-minute live small group sessions
Nervous system stabilisation and evidence-based reality-checks to help ensure that fear isn’t driving your decision
Clear exploration of court realities, expectations and preparation considerations
Supportive thinking space to weigh risk, benefit, timing and impact on children
Honest, compassionate truth specific to your situation without fear-mongering or false reassurance
A meaningful $250 discount on The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™
Free access to AI Danielle until December 2026
Guidance for next steps, whether you decide “yes”, “not yet”, or “no” regarding court proceedings
You will leave feeling:
clearer
more informed
more grounded
less intimidated
supported
empowered to decide rather than react
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The Family Court Curious group is intentionally small. This is not a large, anonymous “group program” on zoom.
Each group is intentionally small so it remains personal, deeply supported and emotionally safe.
The size is chosen so that every woman can be heard, every story can be honoured, and nobody fades into the background.This space is not therapy and not crisis response
Sessions are never recorded to protect privacy and emotional safety
Confidentiality is a core expectation
Suitability is self-assessed - please read carefully to ensure this program is right for you
If you’re unsure whether you are safe, please reach out to domestic violence or crisis supports first
This space exists so you do not enter (or avoid) court based purely on fear, fantasy, or unrealistic/false expectations (be they positive or negative)
You deserve clarity.
You deserve steadiness.
You deserve to make this decision consciously, and with accurate information. This space is where you do that. -
This is a fully online program delivered live via Coviu, a secure telehealth platform designed for safe (encrypted) and private support.
After registering and completing payment, you’ll receive a confirmation email with your personal access link and joining instructions.
If you’ve used Zoom before, Coviu will feel familiar. There’s nothing to download - simply click your link to join at the day and time of the scheduled call. -
12pm on Thursdays (AEDT), starting Thursday 5 March.
All dates:
Thur. 5 March
Thur. 12 March
Thur. 19 March
Thur. 26 March
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$525 AUD
for the full 4-week small group experience (4 x 90-minute live small group sessions)
This program is intentionally priced to reflect both the depth of support offered and the seriousness of the decisions you are contemplating. It is a premium, carefully held, trauma-informed experience - without placing unnecessary financial pressure on women who are already carrying so much.
Many women tell me that the steadying, clarity, confidence and relief they gain from me would have changed the trajectory of their separation and/or court journey had they found me earlier. My intention is that this investment delivers a return in emotional stability, grounded decision-making, and reduced harm for both you and your children — whether you continue with further support or not.
You receive:
6 hours of live, specialist, high-level support over 4 weeks
intimate, capped small-group experience
grounded guidance, emotional regulation and clarity
meaningful Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint discount
Access to AI Danielle until May 2026
options for ongoing support if needed
This is not a casual information session or general webinar.
It is structured, focused professional support, designed to genuinely help you think clearly, feel steadier, and make decisions you can trust.Payment
Full payment of $525 AUD is required to confirm your place.
Numbers are strictly limited to protect the intimacy and safety of the space.
Nervous System Recovery & Capacity Building
A 4-week small group experience for women navigating chronic stress, and ongoing emotional load, facilitated by Senior Coach Brigid Morgan.
This small group experience is designed for women who feel depleted, overwhelmed, or stuck in survival mode - even when the immediate crisis has passed.
Our 4 sessions together focuses on rebuilding nervous system capacity after prolonged stress, relational trauma, relationship separation, or ongoing co-parenting strain. The emphasis is not on “fixing” yourself (or the situation), but on understanding how your nervous system has adapted - and learning practical, compassionate ways to expand your capacity, steadiness, and sense of internal safety.
You will be guided through nervous-system-informed education, reflection, and discussion, helping you to make sense of your reactions, reduce shame, and build skills that support regulation and inner capacity in everyday life.
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You feel chronically stressed, overwhelmed, or emotionally exhausted
You notice your nervous system feels “stuck” in fight, flight, freeze (including ‘functional freeze’), faint or fawn
You are navigating separation, co-parenting, or ongoing relational stress
You want to better understand your nervous system responses
You are seeking practical tools to build steadiness, resilience and overall capacity
You value learning alongside others in a supportive, facilitated group
You are able to commit to attending the live sessions
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You are currently in acute crisis and need immediate or intensive support
You are looking for therapy, trauma processing, or crisis intervention
You want one-to-one coaching rather than group work
You are unable to attend the live sessions and are seeking recordings
You are not open to reflective, skills-based group discussion
You want legal advice (the specifics of your situation/legal case will not be explored in this group)
You are hoping for a ‘quick fix’
You are in immediate danger and require urgent legal or safety intervention
You want unregulated venting - this is a contained, supportive, grounded space that is also firmly solution-focused
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4 x 90-minute live small group sessions
Nervous-system-informed education and discussion
Practical strategies to support regulation and capacity building
A contained, supportive group environment
Normalisation and reduced isolation through shared understanding
Guidance from a coach specialising in nervous system recovery and capacity building
A meaningful $250 discount on The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™
Free access to AI Danielle until May 2026
You will leave feeling:
more informed
more grounded
supported
empowered to continue healing your nervous system and growing your capacity - a gift for you and your children
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The Nervous System Healing & Capacity Building group is intentionally small. This is not a large, anonymous “group program” on zoom.
Each group is intentionally small so it remains personal, deeply supported and emotionally safe.
The size is chosen so that every woman can be heard, every story can be honoured, and nobody fades into the background.This space is not therapy and not crisis response
Sessions are never recorded to protect privacy and emotional safety
Confidentiality is a core expectation
Suitability is self-assessed - please read carefully to ensure this program is right for you
If you’re unsure whether you are safe, please reach out to domestic violence or crisis supports first
This space exists so you are not navigating your separation, life, relationships, or recovery from a place of nervous system overwhelm or collapse.
Chronic stress can distort perception and erode self-trust. This group is designed to help you understand those patterns and build steadier internal capacity, rather than reacting from survival mode.
You deserve regulation.
You deserve clarity.
You deserve to make decisions from a place of steadiness rather than panic, overwhelm or exhaustion.This space is where that work begins.
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This is a fully online program delivered live via Coviu, a secure telehealth platform designed for safe (encrypted) and private support.
After registering and completing payment, you’ll receive a confirmation email with your personal access link and joining instructions.
If you’ve used Zoom before, Coviu will feel familiar. There’s nothing to download - simply click your link to join at the day and time of the scheduled call. -
12pm on Tuesdays (AEDT), starting Tuesday 3 March 2026.
All dates:
Tue. 3 March
Tue. 10 March
Tue. 17 March
Tue. 24 March
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$525 AUD
for the full 4-week small group experience (4 x 90-minute live small group sessions)
This program is intentionally priced to reflect both the depth of support offered and the seriousness of the decisions you are contemplating. It is a premium, carefully held, trauma-informed experience - without placing unnecessary financial pressure on women who are already carrying so much.
Many women tell us that the steadying, clarity, confidence and relief they gain from coaching would have changed the trajectory of their journey had they found Danielle Black Coaching earlier. My intention is that this investment delivers a return in emotional stability, nervous system regulation skills, knowledge to increase your capacity and confidence to continue building a solid foundation for you and your children - whether you continue with further support or not.
You receive:
6 hours of live, specialist, high-level support over 4 weeks
Intimate, capped small-group experience
Grounded guidance, emotional regulation and clarity
Meaningful Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint discount
Access to AI Danielle until May 2026
Options for ongoing support if needed
This is not a casual information session or general webinar.
It is structured, focused professional support, designed to genuinely help you understand your nervous system on a deeper level, and learn skills to heal your nervous system so that you can show up in the world as the best version of you, and enjoy your post-separation life more deeply and fully.Payment
Full payment of $525 AUD is required to confirm your place.
Numbers are strictly limited to protect the intimacy and safety of the space.
Parenting Without Court Orders
A 4-week small group experience for mothers navigating shared parenting outside the court system, facilitated by Senior Coach Brigid Morgan.
This small group experience is designed for parents who are navigating post-separation parenting without formal parenting orders, and who want to do so thoughtfully, protectively, and with a clear understanding of what is - and is not - workable over time.
Our 4 sessions together support you to build clarity and capacity when parenting arrangements are informal, evolving, or under pressure. The focus is on child-centred decision-making, realistic expectations, important boundaries, and reducing fear-based or reactive choices.
This is not a space that promotes avoiding court at all costs, nor is it designed to push parents toward litigation. Instead, it exists to support informed, grounded decision-making - so that parenting without orders is approached consciously, rather than by default.
You will be guided through education, discussion, and reflection, helping you to understand common risks, pressure points, and myths around parenting without orders, while strengthening your confidence to parent protectively and sustainably.
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You are parenting after separation without formal parenting orders
You feel uncertain about what is reasonable, safe, or sustainable long-term
You are experiencing pressure around shared care, communication, or flexibility
You want to understand the realities of parenting without court involvement
You are trying to remain child-focused while managing conflict or imbalance
You value evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate guidance
You value learning alongside others in a supportive, facilitated group
You are able to commit to attending the live sessions
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You are currently involved in active court proceedings for parenting matters
You are seeking legal advice or case-specific legal guidance
You are looking for one-to-one coaching rather than a group experience
You are unable to attend the live sessions and require recordings
You are not open to reflective, skills-based group discussion
You are in immediate danger or high-risk and require urgent legal or safety intervention
You want unregulated venting - this is a contained, supportive, grounded space that is also firmly solution-focused
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4 x 90-minute live small group sessions
A contained, supportive group environment
Education about parenting without orders in the Australian context
Guidance around boundaries, communication, and decision-making
Discussion of common risks and pressure points outside court
Support to think clearly about safety, capacity, and sustainability
Reduced isolation through shared understanding with others in similar situations
Guidance from a coach specialising in parenting without court orders after separation
A meaningful $250 discount on The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™
Free access to AI Danielle until December 2026
You will leave feeling:
more informed
more grounded
supported
empowered to parent, and co-parent, without formal parenting orders in a way that is increasingly realistic, confident, boundaried and protects your wellbeing and that of your child/ren.
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The Parenting Without Court Orders group is intentionally small. This is not a large, anonymous “group program” on zoom.
Each group is intentionally small so it remains personal, deeply supported and emotionally safe.
The size is chosen so that every woman can be heard, every story can be honoured, and nobody fades into the background.This space is not therapy and not crisis response
Sessions are never recorded to protect privacy and emotional safety
Confidentiality is a core expectation
Suitability is self-assessed - please read carefully to ensure this program is right for you
If you’re unsure whether you are safe, please reach out to domestic violence or crisis supports first
This space exists so you are not parenting - or making decisions about your child/ren’s care - based purely on fear, hope, or unrealistic expectations about what parenting without orders can (or should) look like.
Parenting without orders can be workable in some situations, and deeply destabilising in others. This group is designed to help you understand that difference, and to build the capacity to make decisions consciously rather than reactively.
You deserve clarity.
You deserve steadiness.
You deserve to make child-focused decisions grounded in reality, not pressure or wishful thinking.This space is where that work begins.
-
This is a fully online program delivered live via Coviu, a secure telehealth platform designed for safe (encrypted) and private support.
After registering and completing payment, you’ll receive a confirmation email with your personal access link and joining instructions.
If you’ve used Zoom before, Coviu will feel familiar. There’s nothing to download - simply click your link to join at the day and time of the scheduled call. -
12pm on Thursdays (AEDT), starting Thursday 5 March 2026.
All dates:
Thurs. 5 March
Thurs. 12 March
Thurs. 19 March
Thurs. 26 March
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$525 AUD
for the full 4-week small group experience (4 x 90-minute live small group sessions)
This program is intentionally priced to reflect both the depth of support offered and the seriousness of the decisions you are contemplating. It is a premium, carefully held, trauma-informed experience - without placing unnecessary financial pressure on women who are already carrying so much.
Many women tell us that the steadying, clarity, confidence and relief they gain from coaching would have changed the trajectory of their journey had they found Danielle Black Coaching earlier. My intention is that this investment delivers a return in confidence, understanding and knowledge to increase your capacity to continue building a solid foundation for you and your children even without formal court orders - whether you continue with further coaching support or not.
You receive:
6 hours of live, specialist, high-level support over 4 weeks
Intimate, capped small-group experience
Grounded guidance, emotional regulation and clarity
Meaningful Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint discount
Access to AI Danielle until May 2026
Options for ongoing support if needed
This is not a casual information session or general webinar.
It is structured, focused professional support, designed to genuinely help you understand your post-separation parenting situation and dynamic on a deeper level, and manage expectations and healthy boundaries on a deeper level for the benefit of you and your family.Payment
Full payment of $525 AUD is required to confirm your place.
Numbers are strictly limited to protect the intimacy and safety of the space.
Holding The Line
Parenting orders explained, what to include, how they work and what comes next
A 3 session small group experience for mothers wanting information about the realities of final parenting orders, facilitated by Senior Coach Trudie Hargrave.
Holding the Line is a 3 session small group experience, spaced fortnightly, for mothers who already have final parenting orders - or who are approaching that stage - and want to understand how orders actually function in real life, not just on paper.
This group is designed for women who are feeling overwhelmed, confused, or destabilised by what to include in final orders, or with the post-order reality they find themselves in: unclear expectations, pressure to be “flexible,” ongoing conflict, or a sense that the orders they fought for are not delivering the safety, predictability, or relief they expected.
Across 3 x 90 minute sessions, we focus on what parenting orders are meant to do, what they can and cannot protect, and how to work with them in a grounded, child-focused, and psychologically sustainable way. This includes understanding common pitfalls, enforcement myths, boundary erosion, and what “holding the line” actually looks like over time.
This is not a space that promotes rigid rule-following at the expense of children’s needs, nor is it about endlessly accommodating the other parent to keep the peace. Instead, it exists to support clear, realistic, and defensible use of parenting orders, so they function as a stabilising framework rather than another source of stress or self-doubt.
You will be guided through education, discussion, and reflection to help you regain clarity, confidence, and steadiness - particularly if you are questioning whether you are “doing it right,” feeling worn down by ongoing demands, or unsure what options exist beyond simply enduring the status quo.
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You already have parenting orders, or are needing to finalising them
You feel uncertain about how orders are meant to work in day-to-day parenting
You are experiencing pressure, boundary testing, or conflict despite having orders
You feel confused about flexibility, compliance, or “reasonable” expectations
You want to parent protectively and child-focused within an ordered framework
You are questioning what comes after orders, and how to hold your ground long-term
You value evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate guidance
You can commit to attending the 3 x live group video call sessions
You value learning alongside others in a supportive, facilitated group
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You are not yet in the court system for parenting matters
You are seeking legal advice or case-specific legal interpretation
You are in immediate crisis or safety risk and require urgent support
You are looking for one-to-one coaching rather than a group experience
You are unable to attend the live sessions and require recordings
You are not open to reflective, skills-based group discussion
You want unregulated venting - this is a contained, supportive, grounded space that is also firmly solution-focused
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3 x 90-minute live small group sessions (spaced fortnightly)
Education about parenting orders in the Australian context
Clear explanation of what orders are designed to do - and what they are not
Guidance around boundaries, compliance, flexibility, and sustainability
Discussion of common post-order pressure points and misunderstandings
Support to think clearly about safety, capacity, and long-term functioning
Reduced isolation through shared understanding with others navigating similar dynamics
Guidance from a coach experienced in post-order parenting realities
A meaningful $250 discount on The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™
Free access to AI Danielle until December 2026
You will leave feeling:
more informed
more grounded
clearer about your rights, responsibilities, and boundaries
steadier in your expectations and parenting decisions
more confident holding the line in ways that protect your child and your wellbeing
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The Holding the Line group is intentionally small. This is not a large, anonymous “group program” on zoom.
Each group is intentionally small so it remains personal, deeply supported and emotionally safe.
The size is chosen so that every woman can be heard, every story can be honoured, and nobody fades into the background.This space is not therapy and not crisis response
Sessions are never recorded to protect privacy and emotional safety
Confidentiality is a core expectation
Suitability is self-assessed - please read carefully to ensure this program is right for you
If you’re unsure whether you are safe, please reach out to domestic violence or crisis supports first
This space exists so you are not parenting - or responding to pressure - based purely on fear, guilt, or unrealistic expectations about what parenting orders should fix or prevent.
Parenting orders can provide structure and clarity in some situations, and still leave parents exposed to ongoing stress, conflict, or boundary erosion. This group is designed to help you understand that reality, and to build the capacity to work with your orders consciously rather than feeling trapped by them.
You deserve clarity.
You deserve steadiness.
You deserve to use parenting orders as a stabilising framework - not a source of ongoing self-doubt or exhaustion.This space is where that work begins.
-
This is a fully online program delivered live via Coviu, a secure telehealth platform designed for safe (encrypted) and private support.
After registering and completing payment, you’ll receive a confirmation email with your personal access link and joining instructions.
If you’ve used Zoom before, Coviu will feel familiar. There’s nothing to download - simply click your link to join at the day and time of the scheduled call. -
1pm on 3 alternate Thursdays (AEDT), starting Thursday 26 February 2026.
All dates:
Thurs. 26 February
Thurs. 12 March
Thurs. 26 March
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$395 AUD
for the full 3 session small group experience (3 x 90-minute live small group sessions, spaced fortnightly)
This program is intentionally priced to reflect both the depth of support offered and the seriousness of the decisions you are contemplating. It is a premium, carefully held, trauma-informed experience - without placing unnecessary financial pressure on women who are already carrying so much.
Many women tell us that the steadying, clarity, confidence and relief they gain from coaching would have changed the trajectory of their journey had they found Danielle Black Coaching earlier. My intention is that this investment delivers a return in confidence, understanding and knowledge regarding the role and reality of final court orders - whether you continue with further coaching support or not.
You receive:
4.5 hours of live, specialist, high-level support over 3 sessions
Intimate, capped small-group experience
Grounded guidance, emotional regulation and clarity
Meaningful Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint discount
Access to AI Danielle until May 2026
Options for ongoing support if needed
This is not a casual information session or general webinar.
It is structured, focused professional support, designed to genuinely help you understand final orders, and their role within your post-separation dynamic on a deeper level. This includes enhancing your understanding of what parenting orders are meant to do, what they can and cannot protect, and how to work with them in a grounded, child-focused, and psychologically sustainable way.Payment
Full payment of $395 AUD is required to confirm your place.
Numbers are strictly limited to protect the intimacy and safety of the space.
Post-Separation Co-Parenting Communication
Staying Focused, Child-Centred, and Protective
A 3 session small group experience for mothers wanting to learn and enhance practical communication and documentation strategies for high-conflict situations, facilitated by Senior Coach Trudie Hargrave.
Post-Separation Co-Parenting Communication is a 3 session small group experience for women who find that communication with their former partner remains one of the most draining, destabilising, and stressful aspects of post-separation parenting.
This group is designed for parents who are exhausted by constant messages, emotional manipulation, boundary testing, circular arguments, or subtle pressure - and who want to learn how to communicate in ways that are calm, child-focused, defensible, and psychologically protective, without being pulled into reactivity or self-doubt.
Across three sessions, we focus on how communication functions in high-conflict dynamics, why “reasonable” or well-intentioned responses can backfire, and how to adopt practical communication and documentation strategies that reduce exposure, minimise escalation, and protect your long-term position - both emotionally and practically.
This is not a space that encourages silence at all costs, nor is it about crafting the “perfect” message to finally be understood. Instead, it exists to support clear, intentional, and bounded communication, grounded in children’s needs, realistic expectations, and an understanding of how written communication is often used - and misused - after separation.
You will be guided through education, examples, discussion, and reflection to help you move away from reactive or over-explained responses, and toward communication that is purposeful, steady, and aligned with your values as a protective parent.
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You experience ongoing conflict, pressure, or emotional drain through communication with your former partner
You feel unsure how to respond without escalating, over-explaining, or disengaging completely
You are dealing with frequent messages, tone issues, demands, or boundary testing
You want to communicate in a way that is child-centred and defensible over time
You are concerned about documentation and how written communication may be used or misrepresented
You want practical frameworks rather than generic scripts or platitudes
You value evidence-informed, developmentally appropriate guidance
You can commit to attending the 3 x live group video call sessions
You value learning alongside others in a supportive, facilitated group
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You are seeking legal advice or case-specific drafting
You want help to convince, confront, or emotionally engage the other parent
You are in immediate crisis or safety risk and require urgent support
You are looking for one-to-one coaching rather than a group experience
You are unable to attend the live sessions and require recordings
You are not open to reflective, skills-based group discussion
You want unregulated venting - this is a contained, supportive, grounded space that is also firmly solution-focused
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3 x 90-minute live small group sessions (spaced fortnightly)
Education about post-separation communication in high-conflict dynamics
Practical frameworks for written and verbal communication
Guidance on boundaries, tone, frequency, and content
Discussion of common traps (JADE, over-responding, appeasing, disengaging too far)
Support to understand documentation, record-keeping, and pattern awareness
Reduced isolation through shared understanding with others facing similar challenges
Guidance from a coach experienced in high-conflict post-separation communication
A meaningful $250 discount on The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™
Access to AI Danielle until December 2026
You will leave feeling:
more informed
more grounded
more confident in how - and whether - to respond
clearer about what is child-focused versus reactive
steadier and less emotionally hijacked by communication
better equipped to document and hold boundaries consistently
more aligned with your values as a protective parent
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The Post-Separation Communication group is intentionally small. This is not a large, anonymous “group program” on zoom.
Each group is intentionally small so it remains personal, deeply supported and emotionally safe.
The size is chosen so that every woman can be heard, every story can be honoured, and nobody fades into the background.This space is not therapy and not crisis response
Sessions are never recorded to protect privacy and emotional safety
Confidentiality is a core expectation
Suitability is self-assessed - please read carefully to ensure this program is right for you
If you’re unsure whether you are safe, please reach out to domestic violence or crisis supports first
This space exists so you are not communicating - or documenting - based purely on fear, guilt, or the hope that the “right words” will finally resolve the conflict.
In high-conflict post-separation dynamics, communication is rarely neutral. Messages can become tools for control, escalation, or narrative-building. This group is designed to help you recognise those patterns and respond in ways that are intentional, protective, and sustainable, rather than reactive or self-sacrificing.
You deserve clarity.
You deserve steadiness.
You deserve to communicate in ways that protect both your child and your nervous system.This space is where that work begins.
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This is a fully online program delivered live via Coviu, a secure telehealth platform designed for safe (encrypted) and private support.
After registering and completing payment, you’ll receive a confirmation email with your personal access link and joining instructions.
If you’ve used Zoom before, Coviu will feel familiar. There’s nothing to download - simply click your link to join at the day and time of the scheduled call. -
12pm on 3 alternate Fridays (AEDT), starting Friday 20 February 2026.
All dates:
Fri. 20 February
Fri. 6 March
Fri. 20 March
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$395 AUD
for the full 3 session small group experience (3 x 90-minute live small group sessions, spaced fortnightly)
This program is intentionally priced to reflect both the depth of support offered and the seriousness of the topic/s covered. It is a premium, carefully held, trauma-informed experience - without placing unnecessary financial pressure on women who are already carrying so much.
Many women tell us that the steadying, clarity, confidence and relief they gain from coaching would have changed the trajectory of their journey had they found Danielle Black Coaching earlier. My intention is that this investment delivers a return in confidence, understanding and knowledge regarding post-separation communication - whether you continue with further coaching support or not.
You receive:
4.5 hours of live, specialist, high-level support over 3 sessions
Intimate, capped small-group experience
Grounded guidance, emotional regulation and clarity
Meaningful Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint discount
Access to AI Danielle until May 2026
Options for ongoing support if needed
This is not a casual information session or general webinar.
It is structured, focused professional support, designed to genuinely help you understand post-separation parenting dynamics. This includes enhancing your understanding of why “reasonable” or well-intentioned responses can backfire, and how to adopt practical communication and documentation strategies that reduce exposure, minimise escalation, and protect your long-term position - both emotionally and practically.Payment
Full payment of $395 AUD is required to confirm your place.
Numbers are strictly limited to protect the intimacy and safety of the space.
All group experiences include FREE access to AI Danielle until December 2026
While AI can’t replace coaching, it can deeply enhance your support in ways that a human coach simply can’t match in terms of availability and speed.
AI Danielle is there at any hour, providing guidance aligned with the methods and frameworks followed by the team at Danielle Black Coaching.
This is not about replacing coaching - it’s about having support between 1:1 or group coaching sessions - when your nervous system needs reassurance the most.
All group experiences include a $250 discount on the Blueprint
The Post-Separation Parenting Blueprint™ contains the framework that we use in our 1:1 and small group coaching sessions - the 3 Steps to Protective Parenting™ methodology, Danielle’s Seven Child-Directed Coercive Control Patterns (Black, 2025), evidence-based child development and safety frameworks, capacity-building tools, parenting plan/order examples and more.
Think of us as your tour guides, and the Blueprint as your map.
What Sets Our Group Experiences Apart
01 / Expert Facilitation
Led by experienced coaches who know how to hold space, encourage safe participation, and keep things moving with trauma-informed purpose. Coaches have been carefully selected for each group, ensuring that you benefit from both professional and lived experience.
02 / Intentionally Intimate
You will never be lost in a sea of faces. Intentionally capping numbers allow us to maintain a trauma-informed pace, uphold confidentiality, and create a room where it feels safe to exhale, share honestly and be supported without fear of judgment.
03 / Collaborative Energy
Connection is a core part of the process, and you will recognise yourself in each other. Shame falls away. Clarity grows.
You stop feeling “like the only one,” and begin to feel increasingly steady, supported and not alone. Skilled facilitation means that insight also comes from one another - not just your coach.
More group experiences are planned… tune into The Post-Separation Abuse Podcast, or sign up to our newsletter via the home page to ensure you’re the first to know!
If you would like to enquire about future dates or topics, please reach out via our contact page.